Episodes
![How to Get Through What You’re Going Through | Part 4 | Struggle: When Life Makes No Sense | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Title-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
Struggle: When Life Makes No SenseHow to Get Through What You're Going ThroughOctober 3, 2021
You might say this when you order no pickles on your burger, but it comes with pickles anyway.
Or when you need to meet a work deadline, but you keep getting interrupted.
“The struggle is real!”
When the pillows at your hotel are more like pancakes than pillows.
When it’s “bring your own” TP at the airport bathrooms in Honduras. And you didn’t!
Or when you can’t find a real Diet Coke anywhere outside of the US!
First world problems!
Difficulty is part of the rhythm of life. Everything is broken, and that creates problems.
Today, I tried to order lunch delivered to the office. Placed the order. Paid online. And then, a Door Dash driver calls to tell us the restaurant is slammed. Full dining room, only three staff, and 6 drivers waiting for delivery orders. Our guy has waited 30 minutes already, and can’t wait any longer. “You should probably just cancel the order” he says. One more problem to solve.
In Genesis 3:17, after Adam and Eve has chosen their way, rather than obedience to God’s way, God tells them, “All your life you will struggle…” And they did. And we have. Do. Will. Struggle IS real, for everyone. Some of it we create ourselves. Some is foisted on us by the actions of others. No matter how it happens, or where it comes from, we all face it.
This week, in the 4th episode of our series How to Get Through What You’re Going Through, we’re taking a look at the reality of struggle. Though we all face difficulty, we’re not all in the same boat. What feels like a struggle for me, might not be a struggle for you. But no matter what struggle you are facing, there is a healthy way to navigate through it and get to the other side successfully.
Oh, and our Door Dash dude…he showed up with lunch just as we were hatching a new plan. So, no struggle after all! I’m sure another is just around the corner. But we’ll be ready. Join us this Sunday, and you will be too.
![How to Get Through What You’re Going Through | Part 3 | Sorrow: Getting Through Life’s Losses | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Title-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Sep 28, 2021
Tuesday Sep 28, 2021
Sorrow: Getting Through Life's LossesHow to Get Through What You're Going ThroughSeptember 26, 2021
News flash!!The Pity Train has just derailed at the intersection of Suck It Up and Move On and crashed into We All Have Problems, before coming to a complete stop at Get the Heck Over It. Any complaints about how we operate can be forwarded to 1-800-waa-waaa. This is Dr. Sniffle reporting live from Quitchur Fussin.’ The meme goes on to say: If you like this, repost it. If you don’t, suck it up, buttercup, life doesn’t revolve around you!While these words might bring a chuckle, they also reveal how we often respond to people in pain. Grief hurts. Heartache is heavy. Loss is hard. And being there for someone in pain can be uncomfortable, inconvenient, difficult.Their relationship had always been challenging, but now it felt shattered beyond repair. Not knowing where else to turn, the young couple met with their pastor. He listened as they unpacked the pain, then spoke softly. “Thank you for telling me your story. But I want to caution you against sharing with anyone outside this office. People will judge you. See a counselor for help, but don’t tell anyone at church.”I wish I could tell you this was just a story, written for illustrative purposes. But this really happened, years ago now, to friends of mine. In the early days of a crisis, seeking help to work through broken trust, they turned to the place they thought for sure they’d find hope. Only to be told to cover it up, don’t talk about it, pretend like everything’s ok. Being there for someone in pain can be uncomfortable, inconvenient and hard. Even for a pastor.We use expressions like, “Don’t cry over spilt milk.” “Sweep it under the rug.” “Put one foot in front of the other” or “Just keep swimming.” Those catchy phrases that encourage us to forget about yesterday and just keep moving forward have been around forever. They are so deeply embedded into our culture – both outside and inside the Church – that we don’t even stop to consider whether they’re good, right, healthy or biblical. Grief enters our lives in a variety of ways. Through the death of a loved one, certainly. But there are so many other sources of loss and pain in our world. And yet, death sometimes seems to be the only thing we have permission to stop and grieve. Whether you’ve lost someone you love or not, if you’re old enough to be watching this video, you’ve certainly lost something. Perhaps you’ve lost a job, a home, a dream; a friendship, a marriage, a child. Or maybe you’ve lost money, respect, safety or trust. The list of possible losses is unending. With the reality of so much loss and pain in our day-to-day lives, who has time to grieve? Is there any option other than to just let it go, get over it, move on?The honest, hope-filled answer is YES! We are in week 3 of our series, How to Get Through What You’re Going Through. This week we’re talking about sorrow and what it looks like to enter in and work through sorrow in a healthy way. And “Suck it up, buttercup” is not part of the process. God never intended for pain to be part of our story. But He does promise to redeem our pain and heal our wounds, if we choose to enter into the healing process that He has designed us for.
![How to Get Through What You’re Going Through | Part 2 | Shock: When Your World Collapses | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Title-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
Shock: When Your World CollapsesHow to Get Through What You're Going ThroughSeptember 19, 2021
October 29, 1929…"Black Tuesday" hit Wall Street as investors traded some 16 million shares on the New York Stock Exchange in a single day. Billions of dollars were lost, wiping out thousands of investors. Overnight, many people lost their businesses and their life savings. The economic impact created shockwaves around the world.December 7, 1941…7:48 AM Sunday morning at Pearl Harbor. A surprise attack was launched by 353 Imperial Japanese aircraft in two waves, from six aircraft carriers. Of the eight U.S. Navy battleships present, all were damaged, four sank. A total of 188 U.S. aircraft were destroyed; 2,403 Americans were killed and 1,178 more were wounded. We were suddenly a nation at war.January 28, 1986…Cape Canaveral, Florida. The Space Shuttle Challenger prepared for launch. It was the twenty-fifth Space Shuttle flight; the tenth for Challenger. Seventy-three seconds into its flight, the Challenger broke apart in a shocking explosion killing all seven crew members aboard. A stunned nation watched in horror.September 11, 2001...Nineteen militants associated with the Islamic extremist group al Qaeda hijacked four airplanes and carried out suicide attacks against targets in the United States. Two planes were flown into the twin towers of the World Trade Center in New York City; a third hit the Pentagon in Arlington, Virginia, and because of courageous passengers who thwarted the plans of their hijackers, the fourth plane intended for a target in Washington D.C., crashed in a field in Shanksville, Pennsylvania. Almost 3,000 people were killed that day. It was the deadliest attack on American soil in history.All of these events were catalysts for shock that impacted our nation and even the world. On a smaller scale, each of us has our own experiences with loss and grief that have sent us into shock… your teenager has been arrested; a routine check-up results in an unexpected diagnosis; the spouse who promised to love and be faithful had an affair; the brother you love, is taken from this world with no warning; a son off on a day hike is lost and doesn’t come home as expected, or you’re suddenly fired from your dream job. And in those moments, as you struggle to catch your breath, all you feel is numb. You are in shock.Last week we launched a new sermon series called How to Get Through What You’re Going Through. This week, we’ll be unpacking the first phase of ‘getting through’ – shock.Life is uncertain. Learning how to navigate the uncertainties of life and process the losses we all experience in a healthy way, is essential to our emotional and spiritual growth.The apostle Paul in his second letter to the church at Corinth writes, “(God) comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others.” Everywhere we turn, there are people in need of comfort. Perhaps you are in need of comfort right now. Or maybe, you need to know how to be a comfort to someone else.
![How to Get Through What You’re Going Through | Part 1 | Well, Whaddya Know? | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Title-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
Well, Whaddya Know?How to Get Through What You're Going ThroughSeptember 12, 2021
It was just a regular Tuesday morning. I was up early and in my office, enjoying some quiet time with Jesus before starting to work on my sermon. There was nothing unique or unusual about the day. Nothing seemed off. As staff arrived, there was the usual banter and laughter around the office. I had no reason at all to expect the news that was about to come. But then again…isn’t that how it usually works? Life is uncertain, unpredictable, and none of us is guaranteed a tomorrow. We just prefer to live like we’re bulletproof, until something rocks our world.Around 10 A.M. I received a text. It was startling news of the completely unexpected death of one of our Dayspring family. A tragic accident took her life and she is no longer with us, but is now in the presence of Jesus. She was just 61 years young, active, vibrant, generous, a friend to everyone who knew her. She touched so many with the love of Jesus. And suddenly, with no warning, she’s gone.Grief doesn’t come when it’s convenient, when your schedule allows, when you have plenty of margin in your life. Loss comes in a variety of ways, not just in the death of a loved one. And when loss hits, it hijacks your plans, your emotions, and maybe even your wallet. And there is no escape. You’ve most likely already navigated some sort of loss in your life. After the last year and a half, who hasn’t? But if by chance you happen to have been spared thus far, your turn is coming. You can count on it.This Sunday we’re beginning a new series called How to Get Through What You’re Going Through. Because grief is no respecter of persons. Grief won’t schedule an appointment on your calendar, or wait until you have time for it. You can’t delegate it to someone else to handle for you or buy yourself a pass to a loss-free life. The hard truth is everything and everyone is broken. We all experience heartache, pain, and loss. But even in loss, there is hope! There is truth to hold on to and a way to process our pain and experience healing. That’s what this series is all about.
![How Do You Recognize a Christian? | Part 14 | Represent – 3 John 1:1-15 | Michelle Snook](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Recognize-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Sep 07, 2021
Tuesday Sep 07, 2021
Represent!How Do You Recognize a Christian?September 5, 2021
A logo is all about identity.
Wikipedia defines a logo as a graphic mark, emblem, or symbol used to promote public identification and recognition.
Logos can convey certain virtues or values without the need for a lengthy explanation. They can also create strong emotions or reactions. A logo is a declaration, an expression, an exclamation. A logo indicates allegiance to someone or something; a product, priority, or person. A logo communicates a message.
In our current culture, identification is a huge deal. We wear our allegiances on t-shirts, baseball caps, bumper stickers, and tattoos. We declare our affiliations and identities on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. So what does your life say about who you are, and what message are you communicating?
We are wrapping up our summer series How Do You Recognize a Christian? this Sunday, by taking a look at the last of the Apostle John’s letters. In his final letter, John urges his readers to consider the importance of who or what you represent, how you represent them, and the ripple effect that representation has on the world around you.
![How Do You Recognize a Christian? | Part 13 | Love With(out) Borders – 2 John 1:1-13 | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Recognize-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Love With(out) BoundariesHow Do You Recognize a Christian?August 29, 2021
It was American advertising executive and author Lois Wyse who came up with a tagline for a small company in Orrville, Ohio, which made them famous across the country: “With a name like Smucker’s, it has to be good.” And Smucker’s has been a household name ever since. She’s also credited with saying, “If I had known how wonderful it would be to have grandchildren, I would have had them first.” As many of you know, DeeDee and I have a 3-year-old granddaughter whom we adore. Being Avery’s Pops and Grammy is pure joy. We love hanging out with her; reading books, watching movies, taking walks, dancing, singing, making dinner…just about everything is more fun with Aves. As our only grandchild, she has our undivided attention and affection. And she definitely has us wrapped around her little finger! I mean…we’ve already bought her her first car!Our love for Avery is deep; but as much as we want to hear her laugh and see her happy, we still have boundaries in place that ensure our relationship with her is healthy. She doesn’t get candy for breakfast, we don’t let her run rampant in the streets without supervision, sharp knives are a no-no! Beyond that, well let’s just say Pops is the tops in her world right now.This week, in our series How Do You Recognize a Christian, we’re taking a look at the short book of 2 John. Though only 13 verses long, this letter from the Apostle John holds important truth for us. In just a few verses, John tells us how to keep our love for others within safe boundaries – by building into our lives two solid guardrails that protect us from going off course: truth and discernment. As pastor Chuck Swindoll writes, “Love flows with life-giving power, but without boundaries, it can do great harm. In the name of love, we can go too far.” Throughout his first letter, John challenged us over and over to love one another. Now in his second letter, he helps us better understand what love should look like.
![How Do You Recognize a Christian? | Part 12 | Know, Know, Know – 1 John 5:13-21 | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Recognize-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
Know, Know, KnowHow Do You Recognize a Christian?August 22, 2021
A friend of mine is living in limbo this week. Her routine and schedule have been turned upside down by…wanna guess?? A family member was exposed to Covid. So, she’s waiting, a bit impatiently, for test results. Maybe you can relate?There’s a ripple effect when our lives are interrupted by the unexpected, the unwanted, the uninvited. Sure, our daily rhythms are affected; but there’s also a deeper impact. There’s an impact in our spirit. Our heart and mind get involved. There’s a sigh of impatience. We get grumpy, frustrated, maybe even angry! We don’t like it when circumstances are beyond our control, or being reminded that the reality is circumstances are always beyond our control. Life is uncertain.So, what do you do when Covid hijacks your plans? Or an accident changes your life, or a job is lost, or you don’t get in to the college you dreamed about, or…take your pick. How do we not just survive, but THRIVE when life is so full of uncertainty?We are studying the letters of the Apostle John this summer, and this week we’re coming to the end of his first letter. As John concludes this first letter he wants to remind his readers that there are things that we can know; things that are certain, things we can count on, be sure of, bet the farm on. In an uncertain world, that we can be certain of anything brings joy and hope and life to our minds and hearts. And when we choose to focus on the things we can be sure of, those unexpected, unwanted, uninvited things in our lives have far less power over us. We can walk more consistently and with deeper joy, peace, confidence, hope, and love when our faith is sure. Who wouldn’t want that?
![How Do You Recognize a Christian? | Part 11 | It All Adds Up – 1 John 5:1-12 | Jon Sprouse](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Recognize-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Aug 17, 2021
Tuesday Aug 17, 2021
It All Adds UpHow Do You Recognize a Christian?August 15, 2021
In an online article titled ‘Why We Believe Things’ David Harding, CEO of Winton, a research-based investment management company, writes, “When we truly believe something it profoundly influences our actions. These actions can then exert a powerful influence on the beliefs of others.” Consider for a minute the things you believe. There are things you believe because of your physical senses, such as it’s hot outside today or that the sky is blue or that something on the stove is burning. Then, there are things that you believe based on past experience: that a chair you’ve never sat in before won’t collapse on you or that your car will start when you get in to go to work or that it will get dark later. There are also more abstract things you believe, because the truth of them has been testified to by a trustworthy source; things such as lying is wrong, that gravity exists, and that the earth is round.Every decision you make, every word you speak, every action you take is directly linked to what you REALLY believe. So, as people who say they believe in Jesus, does the way we live, day in and day out, line up with what we say, or do our actions speak a louder and contradicting message from our words?
We are continuing in our series How Do You Recognize a Christian this Sunday. We’ve looked at several characteristics that should mark the lives of a Christ-follower over the last couple of months. This week we’ll be taking a look at the concepts of faith, understanding, and belief and how those things impact how we live.If David Harding is right, and what you believe profoundly influences your actions, what does your life say about what you really believe? Let’s consider that together.
![How Do You Recognize a Christian? | Part 10 | The Circle of Love – 1 John 4:7-21 | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Recognize-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Aug 10, 2021
Tuesday Aug 10, 2021
The Circle of LoveHow Do You Recognize a Christian?August 8, 2021
On December 10, 2020, the Washington Examiner ran a story with this headline: Dairy Queen customers contribute to 900-vehicle ‘pay it forward’ chain. It began on December 3, when one man decided to pay for the car behind him — prompting a chain of giving that lasted almost three days and resulted in more than $10,000 in sales. Perhaps you’ve been in a Starbucks or McDonald’s drive-thru and been pleasantly surprised to have it happen to you; or maybe you’ve been the one spreading kindness to those in line behind you.Though the concept of ‘pay it forward’ has been around for centuries, the idea was popularized by the 1999 novel and subsequent movie of the same name. However, there’s one significant difference between the book/movie concept and the drive-thru line experience. In the storyline, when someone, ‘pays it forward’ they must do something for someone else that the person cannot do for themselves. Hmmm.We’ve been studying our way through the letters of the Apostle John this summer, in a series we’ve called How Do You Recognize a Christian? As followers and lovers of Jesus, the way we live should give to those around us clear evidence that we are who we say we are…people who love and follow Christ. Our lives should tell the story of God’s extravagant love for us…and for others. One of the first Bible verses kids learn in Sunday School says, “We love because He (God) first loved us.” In his gospel account of Jesus’ life, John records these words spoken by Christ, “Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.” Just as I have loved you is a pretty tall order. I mean, I want to love others like Jesus did; but what does that really mean, practically speaking, for me and for you?
![How Do You Recognize a Christian? | Part 9 | Tried & True – 1 John 4:1-6 | Chris Voigt](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog672499/Recognize-1500x1500_300x300.jpg)
Tuesday Aug 03, 2021
Tuesday Aug 03, 2021
Tried & True
How Do You Recognize a Christian?
August 1, 2021
It began in 1956 and was on-air continuously until 1978. Since then it’s been revised several times, reaching a total of 31 seasons in 2021. To Tell the Truth is an American game show in which four celebrity panelists are presented with three contestants. The contestants all claim to be the same person, with an unusual occupation or life experience. The goal for the panelists is to question the contestants to determine which are the imposters and who is telling the truth. When questioned, the two impostors may lie; but the real person must answer honestly. Asking good questions, listening carefully to the responses, and paying attention to body language are all important factors in determining who is the real deal and who are the fakes. But even knowing that two of the three contestants are lying often doesn’t help the panelists. Determining who the liars are isn’t always as easy as it sounds!
We’ve been working our way through the letters of the Apostle John this summer, in a series we’ve called How Do You Recognize a Christian? We’re looking at the first six verses of 1 John 4 this week, where we find some strong words of exhortation. Like a father warning his children, John reminds his readers, “You can’t believe everything you hear!”
So how do you know what is really true? What sources warrant our trust? There is more information available to the average person today than at any other time in history. It can be overwhelming to even attempt to try and make sense out of the rhetoric, the reporting, the spin, or the sales pitch.